Ralphie's Bop City Pt. 5
Parties and lunches weren’t the only contact I had with Bop City callers. Going
through the folder into which I tossed everything Ralphie-related, I’ve found
quite a bit of correspondence, which I’ll dig into further in the near future. But
one of the things that leaped right out was the wedding invitation.
Regular callers developed a real connection with the project, and quite a few of
them called for years. Answer quality of the regulars varied, but many were
consistently interesting (to me, at least).
One woman with high quality responses began calling when she lived in
Florida. She was single, but after some time – maybe a year – she met a guy. The
guy moved somewhere either out west, or perhaps it was the northern
midwest, or maybe I don’t remember. But the boyfriend moved. The woman
caller moved to join him. After a year or two, they decided to get married, and
moved back to Florida, and they invited me.
They sent a wedding invitation, and a note that they’d put me up if I could fnd
a way to get down there. I seem to recall that I called her back to regretfully
decline, and we had a pleasant, if short, conversation gently tinged with
unreality. I don’t recall if I sent a gift.
Like I said, a connection with the project.
My ex-wife never left a message that I can recall, but was always very
supportive of the idea. She came across a matchbook somewhere that had a
teeny coupon inside the cover, where you could order 50 matchbooks with
your custom message on the outside in gold letters. She gave me a box for my
birthday one year (above) and I gave almost all of them out eventually in the
Authorized Representative’s Kits, along with the business cards and,
occasionally, a newsletter.
The MP3 is a topic that appeared regularly for many years, because it
always produced good answers: The holidays are here; please tell us about your weirdest relatives.
Have you met my Aunt Mildred?.